How often have you been inspired by other successful women and female entrepreneurs? How often have you wondered what it is that makes them so successful? What characteristics do these successful women have in common? Did they simply get lucky?
You look at these women and start evaluating your life wondering if you also have what it takes. You look at your life, you see the stage you’re at, and begin to doubt that you could ever achieve what they have. These women seem so special after all…they have it all…
Do you know what you have in common with these successful women?
The fact that every single one of them was where you are today. Every single one of those women started their journey to success from the very bottom. Every single female entrepreneur started from this exact spot. They also doubted themselves and pondered about how all the successful women got to be so successful; how all these successful businesswomen got to where they are.
This is why I am here to tell you that you have what it takes. If they can do it, so can you. Yes, these women do have certain qualities that have helped them along the way, but they were not born with them. They developed them through their life experiences, practice, and by changing their mindset. They were committed to their growth.
If you are willing to work on yourself and make the necessary adjustments, there is no limit to your success…
So without dragging on this pep-talk any longer…here are the characteristics of successful women.
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Characteristics of successful women.
1. She is consistent
Staying consistent with your goals and continuing to work towards what you want is vital for success. The journey to success is tough. There will be lows and there will be moments of doubt. Most people give up at the first sign of difficulty. Most people are not willing to push past these lows. Do not let that be you, because your success might be just around the corner. If you just push past this difficult stage, you could have everything you always wanted. Keep working at it until you get there because if you are willing to put in the work if you are willing to fight for this consistently every day, there is no reason why you cannot achieve it.
Consistency is key!
2. She is positive
Having a glass half full kind of mentality can seriously elevate your life. You will be amazed at the things you will begin to attract to your life if you keep a positive outlook. Positivity is infectious and you will inspire many people along the way.
This does not mean you cannot allow yourself to feel upset or cry or get overwhelmed. You are human after all. But it is important to pick yourself up from these moments and just keep going and find reasons to smile and be happy despite the difficulties.
In every situation, however tough, there is always something good that you can take away from it. So next time you are faced with a challenging situation, think about how you can turn this into something positive. Maybe it was a life lesson that will help you improve and learn something new. Think about how this challenge changed you. Did you grow as a person from this experience?
3. She learns from failures
A successful woman does not fear failure. In her world failure does not exist because she either achieves her goal or she does not but she learns valuable lessons from it.
Think about the last time you failed. Why did you fear it so much? What was it about failure that made you so scared of it? In many cases when we fear failure, in fact, we fear what others will think of us. Letting go of this can be extremely liberating. It can make you more courageous to take on challenges and less scared of failing. The more opportunities you take, the more likely it is you’ll succeed. It’s simple probability.
Every mistake, every failure is a lesson that will ultimately make you better.
4. She knows her worth
Know your worth and know what you bring to the table. Most importantly be willing to walk away from anything or anyone that tries to undermine it.
There are so many successful women in my life that are just absolutely amazing – they literally have it all. They are beautiful, funny, intelligent, knowledgeable, and kind but somehow, they still fail to see their worth. I also came across women who are judgmental, mean, and not so hard working who think they are it! This always baffles me. I know if you are reading this, you fall into the first category so remember what an amazing woman you are and let all your amazing qualities shine through.
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5. She has self-awareness
If you want to make any change in your life or in yourself, you need self-awareness. Self-awareness allows you to reflect on all these things and help you notice what might need changing. Once you know what you can and want to improve you can make the necessary changes. In addition, being self-aware can also improve how you relate to people and how your behaviours or words affect those around you.
6. She has a clear vision
To be successful you first need to have a goal to aim towards. When you have a clear vision and intention about what you want you can begin to plan the steps to get there. Once these steps are in place you can take the appropriate action.
If you feel you still need to clarify your goals and you need help envisioning what you want your life to look like, I recommend doing a vision board. A vision board is simply a physical manifestation of your dreams. It is a collage of images or ideas for what you desire most in life. If you need some inspiration, try answering the following questions:
- Where do I want to be in the next five years?
- What is my ultimate aim?
- Why do I want to achieve this aim?
- How much free time do I want to have in life?
- What makes me want to get up in the morning?
- I am happiest when……………….
7. She is driven
What does being driven mean exactly? Being driven is all about ambition, dreaming big, setting high goals, and most importantly, taking action. This is the drive! This is what separates successful women from those who do not reach their goals. Think about how many people talk about their big dreams, what they want their life to look like, how they do not like their life right now. How many of them take action to change their circumstance?
Successful and unsuccessful women have the exact same goals, but the successful ones acted on them.
8. She is kind
Kindness is so underrated in today’s society, but it can go a long way. People will always remember acts of kindness. Whether you are an entrepreneur or a professional, you will be working with and often relying on other people. Being kind can improve your working relationships and you never know when this will benefit you in the future. It takes no effort at all to be kind and compassionate and it is always worth it.
9. She has integrity
This is all about doing what is right. Never compromise yourself or your values to achieve anything in life. You want to be able to look in the mirror and recognise the person looking back at you. The road to success can be long but taking shortcuts will always backfire. Whatever you do be sure it matches your morals and values. Be ready to take a step back if it does not – this is such a powerful move!
10. She has the right people in her life
There is no room for toxic people in your life. Toxic people can hold you back because they do not have your best interest at heart. First of all, they may try to sabotage your goals due to envy, or they will thrive on your failures to make themselves feel better. You do not need them. If any relationship in your life leaves you drained and doubtful of your dreams you will know it is time to step back.
The right people will be honest with you, but it is so that you can grow. They will never discourage your goals but instead will give you honest advice about the steps you are taking to achieve them. You will feel happy and supported. This goes for your family, friends, and your romantic partner. Trust your gut feeling about people and their intentions. Most likely it is right.
Never be afraid to disconnect from people who do not support you.
11. She is committed to personal growth
Personal growth does not receive the attention it deserves when it comes to success. Achieving your goal will not automatically make you more confident. Earning more money than you ever imagined will not automatically make you happier. Not having to rely on people will not make you less anxious. These things take personal growth to change. You need to change your internal factors rather than the external factors. This will help you live a more fulfilling life long-term, and it will make you more resilient against setbacks. Keep checking in with yourself and shift your mindset if necessary. Work to become the absolute best version of yourself.
12. She is willing to learn
Always keep learning! Whether it is related directly to your goal or not. No piece of information, no fact, and no skill you learn is ever a waste. Consume any knowledge you can. Read as many books as possible. Listen to those podcasts. Take the courses. Listen to the people who surround you. Stay open to everything that is new. You never know when it might benefit you.
13. She is willing to step out of her comfort zone.
Success lies on the other side of uncomfortable. Yes, change is scary. Yes, you might fail (and learn from it). But you will not achieve anything if you are not willing to be uncomfortable. The more uncomfortable something seems, the scarier it is, the more valuable it is. Would you truly be so scared if it didn’t mean a lot to you? It is uncomfortable because you want it. Now imagine how amazing it would feel if you got through it and that success became a reality.
14. She is a risk-taker
You won’t always be sure if the next step is the right one and you won’t always know the answer. When there is a decision to make about your next step or a certain approach, sometimes you just have to take the plunge and trust that things will work out.
15. She practices gratitude
The long journey to success can sometimes feel like an exercise in futility. Whatever it is, whatever success means to you there will be hurdles and moments of doubt along the way. This is normal!
Practicing gratitude, for example using a gratitude journal can help you focus on the small wins rather than focusing on the final goal. Every success journey is built from those small steps. If you take time to appreciate the small steps and small wins along the way, it can make your journey more enjoyable. It will help you appreciate the progress you are making.
16. She is wise with money
The ability to manage your money is such as underrated skill. Learn to budget, save and invest. Life can take a turn very quickly and there will always be factors beyond your control. If you can try to create a financial cushion that can absorb some of the impacts when things do not go as you expected them to you will be able to get back on your feet quicker.
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17. She is passionate
Imagine waking up in the morning and not having to dread the day ahead. It is actually a privilege to want to get up in the morning and get started on your projects or go to work. So often this gets overlooked. Many of us assume that hating Monday – Friday is normal. If you are not passionate about what you do you will not feel motivated. Achieving your goals and succeeding can only happen if you love what you do. If you find that passion, that thing that makes you tick, there is no reason you cannot succeed. You will be willing to put in the effort even when the going gets tough. Passion will help you get through the lows and make the highs even more exhilarating. So what is that thing that makes you tick?
18. She is a problem solver
There will be challenges in your life. Things will not always go according to plan, and you should be mentally prepared for it. In those moments, willingness to solve the problems will help you overcome every single difficulty. Develop that problem-solving mindset. When a challenge arises ask yourself and write down:
- Why has it happened in the first place?
- If you can still change it?
- What can you do right now to change it?
- How can you prevent this from happening again in the future?
Books for Successful Women!
HOW TO BE AN OVERNIGHT SUCCESS – by Maria Hatzistefanis
ATOMIC HABITS – by James Clear
SHE MEANS BUSINESS – by Carrie Green
19. She is humble
The world is changing so quickly, and the competition is immense. Never take things for granted. You could be a success one day and have a down-fall the following day. Staying humble and taking things day by day will ensure that you do not get too comfortable. Too often people stop trying once they achieve their goal or reach success, they set out for themselves. That is where the danger lies. You need to be grateful for what you achieve and stay humble. Being grounded will help you foresee any challenges and help you keep pushing beyond your initial goals so that you keep your dream alive.
20. She can handle criticism
In some cases, criticism is simply intended to hurt you or put you down. This kind of criticism comes from people who do not wish you well. In this case, you simply have to put it aside and not respond to it. It can be devastating but it comes from people who are deeply hurting. Their pain is so deep, and they are so unhappy with their life that the only way they can cope is to try to make others feel bad about themselves. Rather than stepping up and changing so they can level up to you, they’d rather bring you down to their level, so they do not have to put in the work. Do not take their criticisms in and do not let them have an impact on what you are doing.
On the other hand, sometimes, you will hear truths about what you are doing that are uncomfortable but come from a good place. They will come from those around you that love you. The people who value you will be honest with you because they want you to succeed. This is the criticism you should listen to and take on board. Taking those points on board might help you get closer to your goals.
21. She is willing to give it her all!
Beyond anything else, in order to achieve success, you have to be willing to go all-in! You have to be willing to do anything it takes to get there. If you fail, you need to get yourself back up and keep trying until your dream manifests. Remember that what separates successful people from unsuccessful people is the drive to keep going even if things seem hopeless. Keep at it and stay consistent. This is your recipe for success!
On a final note.
Success is a journey and often a long one. Do not forget that when you look at successful women, female entrepreneurs who make it look easy. What you see is only the tip of the iceberg and often it seems like an overnight success, but it is not. If you can stay consistent, stay patient, and keep moving forward you will get there and join the rest of the successful women. One day you will be the inspiration for others.
What is your goal? What does success mean to you?
Share in the comments below.
Natasza
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