Do you want to learn about the 5 laws of feminine power and how to successfully use them in business to attract all success? Well, you have come to the right place!
Women are freaking amazing!! I just wanted to put that out there because living in a man’s world, sometimes that little fact can slip by and be forgotten. But seriously I love being a woman and I would not have it any other way.
However, there is no hiding the fact that the society we live in has been conditioned to believe those female traits are seen as lesser than the male traits. That feminine energy is weaker than masculine energy etc.
I want to set the record straight and tell you that the FEMININE ENERGY is badass!
Anyone who tries to contradict this is probably deeply aware of this power. They are simply afraid of what you might do if you start to realize this for yourself.
We have so much to offer as women and this is why it is time to realize the incredible power and influence, we hold and use it to our advantage. Because it is not only us who benefit from this, it is the whole society and the whole world.
Let us focus on the 5 Laws of feminine power and help you realize how you can use them in your business, in your work, and in any other area of your life!
Let’s unleash the secret power of femininity!
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5 laws of feminine power
- PUT OUT HIGH VIBE ENERGY
- PLAY TO WIN
- BECOME A MAGNET
- CAPTIVATE
- USE YOUR X-RAY VISION
1. ELEVATE YOUR ENERGY
The energy you put out matters because whatever you put out you will attract back! As Abraham Hicks put it…
“As you think, you vibrate. As you vibrate, you attract. – ABRAHAM HICKS
A high-energy woman that excludes positivity, confidence, warmth, and kindness. If you learn how to do that the world will bring that back to you! It creates a high vibe energy cycle between you and your environment.
Make yourself a priority.
As women, we are conditioned to believe we are the sole nurturers. Having a nurturing nature and being helpful and kind to other people is awesome and it can feel good. But at the same time, it should never come at an expense of your happiness and your needs. Because ALWAYS putting others first will deplete your energy faster than anything else. Then you will no longer have the energy to put back into the world and the people around you.
This is why it’s vital that you make yourself a priority. It is not selfish or greedy or high maintenance. It is a way for you to protect your energy so that you have energy to give to others.
Remember what is fact and what is thought.
Thoughts are extremely powerful. Whatever you feed your mind will become your reality.
Sometimes it is easy to enter a self-deprecating spiral. You might be in a place where you do not feel your best self, your self-esteem is low, your confidence is down, and you start to feed your mind with more negative words and thoughts.
It is a vicious cycle, and it is time to break it.
Speak to yourself positively, show yourself compassion and focus on all the wonderful qualities you have. If it helps you can imagine that you are talking to your best friend. If there is something you are thinking about yourself or saying to yourself that you would never tell someone you love, then why would you ever say that to yourself?
Your negative words or perceptions are just thoughts that stem from low self-esteem but they are just thoughts. They are not real, and they certainly do not represent how the rest of the world sees you.
POST: You might also like this post: “How to get out of your own way and stop sabotaging yourself.”
Practice Law of Attraction.
Law of attraction works! Let me tell you why
Law of Attraction is not some magic trick but a simple brain trick!
When you bring into focus the thing that you really want, you subconsciously align all your small daily decisions with that thing. All that you do will start to be filtered through “will this serve to bring me closer to that thing I want”.
Those little decisions and steps add up over time.
Focus on that thing you want and ensure your decisions match that goal.
You’ll see it come to fruition in no time!
That’s the Law of Attraction.
POST: You might like my post “Manifesting – How to get the dream life you deserve?”
Surround yourself with high-vibe people.
It’s no secret that if you spend time with people who have a positive mindset, you’ll most likely have a happier outlook on life. When you surround yourself with highly ambitious people, you’ll become more ambitious yourself.
THE CLICHÉ – You become the average of the people you spend the most time with!
It’s true.
Spend time with people who you want to be more like. If you want to elevate your energy spend time with highly positive, high vibe, and energetically matched people.
It does not mean letting go of everyone who does not quite fit the profile or that you need to drop a friend who is going through a difficult period. Of course not!
But you should interject people into your life that had the qualities you want to see in yourself too.
Practice mindfulness.
Mindfulness is about having a sense of calm and peace in life. How often have you found your energy being consumed because of something that happened that day, even if it was just a minor thing? What about the time when you spent the whole day fretting about a small issue or dwelling over what you said or did?
Being in an unhappy, angry, or anxious state tends to deplete our energies.
This is why practicing mindfulness can be such a powerful technique to learn. It helps to snap you back into the present. Whether journaling, gratitude, yoga, or meditation – find your unique weapon and find that inner peace.
No matter what is going on around you, you will stay calm and collected on the inside.
2. PLAY NICE BUT PLAY TO WIN
Being a nice, kind, warm woman and having a winning mindset are not mutually exclusive. You can absolutely cultivate both in one person.
A woman who can balance the two will climb mountain tops!
Playing nice means that you never feel like you have to bring others down to thrive – you simply focus on your winning strategy and on your own unique path without a care in the world about what anyone else is doing.
So how can you achieve this graceful balance?
Define your vision.
Clarity about where you are heading is a necessity in a winning strategy. You want to have a clear vision about your end goal and have that something that you can strive towards.
When your vision is clear, there is no guessing game about the next steps you should take to get there. You understand where you are heading and this means you limit the excuses, the procrastination, and the putting things off.
Put aside some time and clear some headspace to allow yourself to envision what you want.
Use those vision boards if it helps.
I have a template for you to use as a starter and I recommend signing up to Canva Pro to help you personalize it!
Define your competitive advantage.
You are unique and that is your superpower! So, use it to your advantage.
You have your strengths and weaknesses as does everyone, but too often people tend to focus on the negatives only. When you focus on the negatives you bring them into focus, you dwell on them and forget all about the positives you have to offer.
Bring your focus back to your strengths to start feeling empowered and capitalize on those strengths as much as possible. You have a lot to offer so use what you have as your competitive advantage.
Everything else you can learn in time ; ).
Define your game plan.
So now you have your vision and clarity, what is left is actually defining the game plan – a.k.a. the step-by-step process that will get you there.
It might not be possible for you to define the whole pathway. Even if you do, it will change along the way. That’s ok and actually important. You want to stay adaptable especially as you begin to understand what is working and what is not.
But just the act of starting to think about the game plan will help you in taking the necessary action to lead you there. Even if you only define the next two steps.
Block out the noise.
There are 3 things that can keep you stuck and prevent you from engaging in a winning strategy.
- Other people’s opinions
- Self-doubt/negative self-talk
- Shiny object syndrome/ comparison game
It’s all background noise and if you learn to block it out and persevere despite it you will become unstoppable.
People will always have an opinion. Whatever you decide to do in life, there will be someone who dislikes you and someone who will be inspired by you. That’s why you always have to choose what is best for YOU!
Your perceived value will create a narrative in your head.
- If you value yourself that narrative will feed, you with more positive self-talk and you will start acting accordingly.
- If you think low of yourself that self-talk will be negative, and you will start to believe it.
Break the cycle and start filling your head with a positive narrative. Even if you do not 100% believe it just yet, keep going and it will begin shifting your perspective.
When you are looking over your shoulder to see what others are doing, you will be continually distracted. The thoughts of self-doubt will begin to fill you as you consider if someone has a better strategy than you. Everyone else idea will always seem better than yours because it’s fresh and new to you.
But it does not mean it is better – you may have the winning strategy but if you allow shiny object syndrome to take control of you, you will never see your strategy through.
Focus on you and the results you have. Take inspiration from others but do not let what others are doing skew your path.
3. BECOME A MAGNET
We all know that woman in our life – you know the one that seems to have it all figured out, is beautiful inside and out, and knows it very well. She is like a magnet, and you just want a piece of her world. By stepping into the best version of yourself you will being to attract everything that is meant for you into your life and therefore, into your business.
So how can you become a magnet?
Radiate confidence.
There are two parts to having true confidence:
- The first type is all about how you present yourself to the world. Your voice, your body language, how you take up space in the room. Others pick up on those cues and treat you accordingly.
- The second type of confidence is internal confidence. It is about being at peace with who you are and knowing that you bring your own unique value to the world.
The first type of confidence can be achieved by understanding how you show up in the world. You know that saying about confidence “fake it till you make it”!
It works.
If you start focusing on your body language, your voice projection and generally appearing confident – it will elevate that confidence in you. People will respond to you differently too and all those things will add up to you slowly building that confidence. Externally as well as internally.
If you haven’t yet I recommend you read Amy Cuddy’s Book “Presence” and follow her on social media.
The second type of confidence is a little bit harder to achieve – it will require you to change your mindset and how you view yourself. But once you achieve this level of confidence, your confidence will be unshakable and stay with you for the rest of your life. You have to continually challenge all the negative thoughts you hold about yourself to change that internal dialogue of yours.
POST: If you want more details and actionable tips read my post “How to become a confident woman? [30 Hacks]”
Think abundance, not scarcity.
You attract what you believe in. It goes back to that Law of Attraction idea. When you focus on the negative outcomes, feeling like there is a lack of…in your life, you will begin to act in line with those thoughts. Maybe you’ll put in less effort or pass on an important opportunity.
On the other hand, thinking in terms of abundance, i.e., there is enough of everything for everyone, you will never limit yourself and strive towards everything you want.
Believe that you are limitless and there will be no limits.
Bring into focus what it is that you want.
Practice self-love.
There is something magnetic about a woman who is not afraid to be herself.
Authenticity can feel like a vulnerable thing to do but being true to yourself is the only way to feel truly happy, aligned, and content in life.
Practicing self-love through:
- enforcing positive thoughts
- shifting your mindset
- remembering your unique value
- self-care
- taking care of your needs
- setting boundaries
4. CAPTIVATE
Whereas being a magnet is all about bringing people in, being captivating is all about holding onto them. How?
Having the ability to influence and captivate people is a powerful trait to possess. In life as well as in business. Whereas being a magnet is all about bringing people in, being captivating is all about holding onto them. Whether clients, customers, or raving fans, you want to capture their hearts and get them to continually come back for more.
Having a captivating presence is the key to all that. So how do you go about it?
Create curiosity.
Creating curiosity is all about leaving a little bit of suspense. Whether with an offer or your personality. You want to leave people wondering so that they have no choice but to come back for more.
People are interested in the person behind the business or offer too! So don’t be afraid to share a little bit about yourself, just enough to create a little bit of mystery to spark their interest.
Have charisma.
There is no denying that a positive personality and charisma are attractive. People love charismatic people because this kind of positivity rubs off on them.
Charismatic people are contagious, when around them you can’t help but feel positive too.
Build your charisma and people will want to spend as much time in your presence as they can so they can absorb some of this charisma themselves.
Be unforgettable.
Leave a mark in the life of others. Make them think or question what they know.
That’s how you become unforgettable – by making some sort of positive impact on people’s life.
How you go about it very much depends on the people in your life and the people you are targeting in your business. You should know them better than anyone so you understand what that impact may be for them.
When you make a change in someone’s life for the better – they will never forget you
Empower people.
People will remember how you make them FEEL far more than they will remember what you SAY!
So, make them feel EMPOWERED because they are sure to never forget that.
Feeling empowered can lead to huge shifts in a person’s life which is why it is a powerful emotion to inspire in others.
In business, making this kind of impact on your clients’ or customers’ life will also lead to major shifts in your business.
Show your passion.
Showing passion for what you are doing or selling will captivate far more potential clients or customers. Trust me!
The reason being is that passion creates a sense of trust. When someone is passionate about what they are doing or selling, the people interested in the service or product will have the trust that the person knows what they are talking about and that what they are offering is trustworthy and worthwhile.
Automatically the potential customers or clients will have no choice but to be curious about the offer.
If you are passionate about what you are offering so will your clients and customer.
5. USE THAT X-RAY VISION
Women do have this incredible intuition – we just know! It is rare that we turn out to be wrong about something. If something smells fishy, it usually is.
You can use your intuition or as I like to call it >> YOUR X-RAY VISION << to your advantage in business.
Here is how…
Feel more, think less.
Start trusting what you feel more. If something seems off about an opportunity, about someone, or about a direction you are taking. It probably is.
Your intuition is the subconscious mind acting before your conscious and thinking part of the brain catches up.
It is always worth tapping into that.
To help you in trusting your intuition you can try naming your emotions out loud as they come up and start noticing those subtle body cues.
Pick the right relationships.
Stay conscious of the people who you let into your life.
Especially the romantic partners!
Make sure that you are feeling fulfilled in all your relationships. Use your x-ray vision, take note of any red flags that come up, and be ready to let go of anything not serving you.
It is far better to have no romantic partner than to stay suffocating in a relationship that is not right for you!
When you let go of bad relationships, romantic or not, you are freeing up room in your life to attract the right ones.
Tune into yourself.
Give yourself the time, peace, and space to check in with yourself once in a while.
Do a life audit and make sure that you are living your life according to your true self. Whether in your personal life, work-life, or in business.
Getting into the habit of doing this more frequently will help you stay aligned with your truest self.
If you don’t do it, you run the risk of slowly over time diverting your life down a path that is not true for you and will not make you happy.
By doing a life audit you can make small adjustments before things get out of hand.
On a Final Note.
Here we go!
These are the 5 laws of feminine power and how you can cultivate them in your personal life and business to step into the best version of yourself.
Applying these 5 laws of feminine power will help you live your best life.